#37: How to Be Your Own Personal Trainer!

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What should I do for a workout?

We get this question at least once a day, and I’m sorry to say that we don’t have the perfect answer for everybody.

As much as everyone is hoping for that magic tip and solution to this question I am afraid to say “there isn’t one”.

The reason is that the answer changes  – workout programs should be developed around a person’s body type, age, goals, diet, free time, etc, there’s a lot of factors and trying to answer that in a few minutes is pretty much impossible.

“Developing a workout routine for yourself can be scary…”

What we can do today is offer up suggestions, but there’s one person that knows what’s best for you: YOU.  Developing a workout routine for yourself can be scary, but it’s really not too difficult and kind of fun once you understand the basics.

First of all, what are you doing now? Is it working? Are you getting results? Getting stronger, faster, more flexible, have more energy…?  More important are you safe and is it making you healthier?  If so, keep doing it!  However, if you’re JUST getting started, you want to mix things up, or you’re ready to start lifting weights , it’s good to understand what goes into a program so you can build one for yourself.

Let’s do this!

Determine Your Situation

How much time can you devote to exercise?

If you can do an hour a day, that’s awesome!  If you have a wife/husband, three kids, and two jobs, then maybe you can only do thirty minutes every other day.  That’s fine too.  Whatever your time commitment is, developing the most efficient workout is crucial.  Why spend two hours in a gym when you can get just as much accomplished in 30 minutes?

Where will you work out? At a gym? Using some weights at home? Just bodyweight exercises?

What Exercises Should You Do?

People often like to believe that more complicated equals better – Keep it simple, stupid.

Unless you’ve been lifting weights for years, I recommend doing a full-body routine that you can do two or three times a week.  You want a routine that has at least one exercise for your quads (front of your legs), butt and hamstrings (back of your legs), your push muscles, your pull muscles, and your core.  Yes, this means you can develop a full-body routine that uses only four or five exercises.  How’s THAT for efficiency?

So let’s look at some basic and effective exercises for each of these muscle groups:

Quads – squats, lunges, one-legged squats, box jumps.

Butt and Hamstrings – hip raises, deadlifts, straight leg deadlifts, good mornings, step-ups.

Push (chest, shoulders, and triceps) – overhead press, bench press, incline dumbbell press, push-ups, dips.

Pull (back, biceps, and forearms) – chin-ups, pull-ups, hanging bodyweight rows, dumbbell rows.

Core (abs and lower back) – planks, side planks, exercise ball crunches, mountain climbers, jumping knee tucks, hanging leg raises.

And now what?

Pick one exercise from each category above for a workout, and you’ll work almost every single muscle in your body. These are just a few examples of what you can do, but you really don’t need to make things more complicated than this.

Add some variety – If you do the same routine, three days a week, for months and months both you and your muscles will get bored.  If you do bench presses on Monday, go with shoulder presses on Wednesday and dips on Friday.  Squats on Monday? Try lunges on Wednesday and box jumps on Friday.  Pick a different exercise each time and your muscles will stay excited (and so will you).

Lastly, your muscles don’t get built in the gym, they get built when you’re resting. Give your muscles 48-72 hours to recover between workouts.  A Monday-Wednesday-Friday workout works well to ensure enough time to recover unless you are training for a specific event. Then this principle would most likely not apply.

How Many Sets Should I Do?

Remember to always do a warm-up set or two. Now not including a warm-up set, I recommend doing between 3-5 sets per exercise.

Keep your total workout number of sets for all exercises in the 15-25 set range (5 or 6 exercises of four sets each is a good start).  More than twenty-five sets in a workout can either be overkill (doing more harm than good) or you’re not working yourself hard enough (no slacking allowed).

How Many Repetitions Should I Do?

If you’re looking to burn fat while building some muscle, keep your number of repetitions per set in the 8-15 range.  If you can do more than 15 without much of a challenge, it’s not difficult enough for you.  Add weight or change the exercise so that it’s tougher.

If you’re looking to build size and strength, you should vary your rep ranges depending on the workout.  Now this is a bit more advanced strategy but feel free to give it a try

Low reps (5-8) and heavyweight on Mondays.

High reps (12-15) and lower weight on Wednesdays.

Medium reps (8-12) and medium weight on Fridays.

“keep your muscles guessing…”

If you can keep your muscles guessing by constantly forcing them to adapt to different routines, they’re more likely to get harder, better, faster, stronger (thanks Daft Punk!).

What’s the idea behind a different number of repetitions?

Reps in the 1-5 range build super dense muscle and strength (called myofibrillar hypertrophy).

Reps in the 6-12 range build a somewhat equal amount of muscular strength and muscular endurance.

Reps in the 12+ range build muscular endurance and size.

By doing rep ranges at each of these different increments, you’re building well-rounded, balanced muscles – full of endurance, explosive power, and strength.

Always try to keep your muscles guessing, and you’re less likely to plateau (get stuck lifting the same amount of weight).

How Long Should I Wait Between Sets?

Here is a very basic formula for how long to wait between your sets based on how many reps you’re doing for the exercise. Remember heavier you go /fewer reps you do the more rest you will  to take.

1-3 Reps: Rest for 3 to 5 minutes

4-7 Reps: Rest for 2 to 3 minutes

8-12 Reps: Rest for 1 to 2 minutes

13 Reps+: Rest for 1 minute or less

Now, pair this time between sets with how many reps you are doing.  If you mix up rep ranges on a daily basis, you need to mix up your rest time between sets too.  This is how you build well-rounded muscles and a well-balanced body. 

How Much Should I Lift?

This one is easy: lift enough so that you can get through the set, but not too much that you have NO fuel left in the tank at the end.  How do you determine how much that is?  Trial and error.  When just starting out, or if you’re doing a new exercise for the first time, always err on the side of caution.

Now, if you’re doing exercises with just your body weight, you need to find a way to make each exercise more difficult as you get in shape – once you get past 20 reps for a particular exercise and you’re not gassed, it’s time to mix things up.

This is what I mean…

Can you do 20 push-ups no problem? It’s time to start mixing them up to be more challenging.  

20 bodyweight squats too easy? No problem, how about some jump squats, or evil jumps? Always try challenging yourself.

How Long Should I Exercise?

45 minutes to an hour.

That all depends on how much time you have and what type of workout you are about to do.

If you’re doing mostly strength training workout  with 15-25 sets of total exercise, you should be able to get everything done within that 45-minute time frame.  Now, factor in a five or ten-minute warm-up, and then stretching afterwards, and the workout can go a little bit longer.  If you can go for over an hour and you’re not completely worn out, you’re simply not pushing yourself hard enough.

Less time, more intensity, better results.

What if you don’t have 45 minutes?

That’s a common challenge for most people. “I wish I had time to workout” …oh man I hear this so often!

So if time is an issue for you then listen up these next two suggestions are for you.

Alternating Sets

Let’s say you’re doing four sets of squats and you plan on doing four sets of dumbbell bench presses after that.  If you wait two minutes between each set, this will take you around twenty minutes or so (factoring in the time to get set and actually do the set).

Try this instead: Do a set of squats, wait one minute, then do a set of dumbbell presses, wait one minute, then do your next set of squats, and so on.

Because you’re exercising two completely different muscle groups, you can exercise one while the other is “resting.”  You’re now getting the same workout done in half the time.  Also, because you’re resting less, your body has to work harder so your heart is getting a workout too.  Jackpot.

Let’s see how this would play out in a sample workout:

Lunges alternating with incline dumbbell presses, four sets each, one minute between sets.

Wait a few minutes to catch your breath and get set for your next two exercises.

Straight leg deadlifts alternating with wide-grip pull-ups/body rows, four sets each, one minute between sets.

3 Sets of planks, stretch, and get the hell out of there!


This is the most effective way to burn fat when exercising.

This is also the most effective way to make you involuntarily swear at random objects or people, right Nikki? 😉

A circuit requires you to do one set for EVERY exercise, one after the other, without stopping.  After you’ve done one set of each exercise successfully, you then repeat the process two, three, or four more times. You can check out two of our workouts to get you started:



Circuits get very tricky when in a gym, so make sure you’re doing them when it’s not crowded.

Other Tips:

Keep Track Of Everything

Keep a workout journal! You should be getting stronger, faster, or more fit with each day of exercise.  Maybe you can lift more weight, lift the same amount of weight more times than before, or you can finish the same routine faster than before.

Write everything down so that you can compare yourself against a previous workout.


Okay, so I realize that’s a ridiculous amount of info, but it’s all very important stuff. 

Let’s break it down into easy chunks right here:

ALWAYS warm up – 5-10 minutes on a bike, rowing machine, jumping jacks, run up and down your stairs, jump rope etc.

Pick one exercise for each big muscle group – quads, butt and hamstrings, push, pull, and core.

Do 3-5 sets for each exercise.

Determine how many reps and how long you’ll wait between sets for each exercise.

Mix it up! Vary your reps, sets, and exercises. Keep it interesting.

Increase your efficiency and work your heart by doing alternating sets or circuits.

Keep your workout to under an hour.

Stretch AFTER your workout.

 Write everything down.

Dedicated to your health and well-being

Zuz and Nik Signature-01

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